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Flagged analyzes your dating and texting conversations and surfaces red flags, manipulation, love bombing, and breadcrumbing — clearly, without judgment.

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Example conversation

J

Jake

iMessage

had a really nice time last night 🙂

— 2 days later —

hey
thanks 🙂 wanted to plan something this week?

— 3 days later —

yeah sorry been slammed at work lol
but thinking about you though 😊

— 4 days later —

you up?
it's 1am jake

— 3 days later —

hey are we still on for saturday?
oh about that... something came up :/
miss you tho, when can i see you? 🥺

Red Flag Detected

Breadcrumbing + Ghosting

Pattern identified in this conversation

  • Disappears for days then reappears with vague affection
  • Cancels plans with no explanation or reschedule
  • Late night contact with no emotional investment
  • Responsive only when it benefits them

Confidence Score

87%

Real talk

Sound familiar?

We're building Flagged for anyone who's stared at a chat thread wondering if they're overreacting — or finally seeing it clearly.

  • You replay their messages until they mean what you hope they mean.

  • Plans keep shifting, but the sweet texts keep you holding on.

  • You want a straight read — not another night spiraling alone with your phone.

  • Detects red flags and manipulation patterns instantly

    Paste a screenshot and get a clear, calm read on what's really going on.

  • Identifies love bombing and breadcrumbing behavior

    Recognize the patterns that feel good in the moment but hurt later.

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    Your screenshots are never stored or shared. Analysis happens, then it's gone.

How it works

Three steps from screenshot to a clear read — no jargon, no judgment, just patterns spelled out.

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Our AI scans for over 20 manipulation patterns and red flag behaviors

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Example conversation

J

Jake

iMessage

had a really nice time last night 🙂

— 2 days later —

hey
thanks 🙂 wanted to plan something this week?

— 3 days later —

yeah sorry been slammed at work lol
but thinking about you though 😊

— 4 days later —

you up?
it's 1am jake

— 3 days later —

hey are we still on for saturday?
oh about that... something came up :/
miss you tho, when can i see you? 🥺

Red Flag Detected

Breadcrumbing + Ghosting

Pattern identified in this conversation

  • Disappears for days then reappears with vague affection
  • Cancels plans with no explanation or reschedule
  • Late night contact with no emotional investment
  • Responsive only when it benefits them

Confidence Score

87%

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